The World Is Round :D

Hell yeah, lolz :D We come across so many people and in the end what we notice is that they are inter-related to each other through some1.

Like, I was there in Rb comm. and made a new frnd and same, I made a new frnd in FnG comm. and in the end wat happened is that they both somehow know my best frnd whom i met in RB few months back! lolz :D and they not connected to orkut or some comm. but they are connected in real. 1 was his senior in school and other was senior in his coll. :D

and the funny part is dat no1 actually recognized each other and not even by dat dey all know each other face to face :D

Gosh! I've noticed these kinda things b4 too. and I do smile back at my own self after thinking about this incident!

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Pre-Marital Sex

Recently i was there in 1 of my fav. comm. RB i.e. Recycle Bin.

It was coffee with me and i actually had a blast there!

Ruchi- Guest

Santanu- Host

Blast was such that it lead to unjoining of the guest as well as the host of the comm.

[PS: Owner not-so-good] :\

Letz not talk about the fight over here and wat i wanna share throught this topic is a question, dat 1 of the very old member of that comm. asked me in that coffee!

Question- As Ruchi is committed now, does she still think that pre-marital sex is something bad, be it with the person whom you chosed to marry?

Answer- yes i do think pre-martial sex is wrong.. i wont say BAD.. itz rong.. well, in my opinions, wen u r born and grown up, ur parents expect something 4m u.. dey spend so much of deir love, enery, money and deir own self in growing us and so itz we ppl who have to realize deir value and build up all deir expectations.. my parents too expect something 4m me.. dey too have made some limits 4 me and so respecting dat i prefer pre-martial sex wrong.. again i repeat.. itz not BAD.. sab k aapne aapne views hote hai.. my parents have given me all freedom so dat i can feel free with dem and with everything.. but den it doesn't mean u'll make use of dat freedom and will break dose limits dat dey made 4 me!

Past, Present, Future

One has the 3 phase of life i.e. the past, the present, and the future [not that english grammer 1] :/ These 3 things gonna be with dat person foreva be it past, or present or future! The actually don't leave us eva! but yes, on a 2nd thought 1 shud always know how to move on in life after suffering those phase of life.

In my previous blog, it was all about my past, wat all happened with me, but then 1 thing which i've learnt from my life is that "you should always move on in life with a smile on ur face and cross those problems in your life happily".

Past- It is something dat will haunt u in ur present, will TRY to make it difficult for ur present and will EVEN TRY to destroy ur present. Yes, god does play these kinda roles to check how much strength we have in us to actually over come all the problems! By this i remember a line my frnd actually commented on me wen he came to know am very upset over "SOMETHING". It was like "Past is meant to be forgotten, Itz past i.e. only memories left and one should keep the happy memories with them so dat they can smile in present n future weneva they think of them". A true line and so i am most of the time on this statement! Atleast in my life, I've moved on with my past as a good memory but yes i don't really walk with my past now, I've 4gotten everything and so living my present happily!

Present- The time i am living right now. It is again with problems but that datz called as life. Life without problems is nothing. But hey, my problems ain't that big. Itz just related to some personal problems, carrier, job, everything that is related to ur future. if i re-read whateva i wrote, a 2nd thought comes to my mind and i think 1 shud stick to dat too, "one shud live in present but should not 4get the future and should always take steps in present dat can make the future better".. [a modified 1 in my language]

Future- Ah! well, no1 really knows watz gonna happen next so we can't really talk abt it. We can just make it better by working hard over things in present! Inshort, present and future are kinda related to each other! If our present is secured then obviously our future will be secured! :)

'Nothing' and 'Don't Know'

I read this in some one's blog where the person wrote the relation btw 'Nothing' and 'Don't know'. With the same title me too thought of writing about that related to my case!

People generally ask "Hey, sup?" to start with the conversation [as the think] but they never think that we are talking to them so freely so it means we are doing "NOTHING" and so we always try not to answer that cuz we know by this word the conversation gonna end and not start. But on a 2nd thought we got no other option except this. As soon as we say "Nothing, U tell", the conversation generally gets over! Hence a wrong word in dictionary for many-a-cases!

We can't really do anything with this word cuz itz even true with me, in my cases too, i used this word often cuz i generally don't do anything as imp. to answer him except nothing. so using this word ain't that wrong but generally most of the people think itz offensive to them! :/

The same is with "Don't Know". People generally ask those questions which we can't answer. Hence, we still got 2 reasons why we can't answer that:

1. We don't want to tell that thing to that person.

2. We in real don't know wat to answer cuz we nva thought of that.

Knowing the 2 reasons, people still don't get this thing and still go on asking things.

Like lemme share my example with you. Recently a very good frnd of mine, asked me why i don't sleep in night, why i can't sleep in night. After his 5-10 mins lecture, i realized that i've never thought of this question, I've nva asked this question to myself so yeah i was unable to answer him. I wasn't knowing the real reason behind this and so my frnd told me to think of it 1ce cuz he as well as i also do believe that there is a reason behind everything.

^ ^ An example to state that in my case No. 2 is applied i.e. We in real don't know what to answer cuz we nva thought of it! so I simply replied him "I dunno" cuz itz true that i've got no answer 4 it!

Again a so-called-wrong-word-for-many-cases. As i believe, after having that conversation with my frnd, One shud know the reasons / things so that we can clearly answer the other person. and for 1st reason, one shud be straight enough to tell the other person that "you don't wanna tell him/her ur stuff".

- Ruchi